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Like many people, I consider myself a big Law & Order fan. I will sit there and watch a Marathon on USA all day even if I’ve already seen the episode a million times already.

I can recite the opening dialogue perfectly.

I like to guess the plot twists early on.

And I feel like I’m one of the only people that was happy that Olivia and Elliot never got together. I cherish their platonic relationship. It meant that men and women can coexist together and love one another without jumping into bed.

I’m also one of many people who were upset to see Elliot leave.

However I’ve been happy with the new faces in the last couple of seasons. Amanda and Nick have been good editions to the show. And so has the new ADA.

Law & Order was actually really good tonight. One of the stronger episodes I’ve seen in awhile with tonight’s “October Surprise”.

It was also pretty diverse. It mostly focused on the ADA Rafael Barba (played by Raul Esparza) and his former childhood friend who is also running for NYC mayor (and in this fictional world would be the 1st Hispanic mayor). They grew up together, and both wanted to leave their low income areas to become successes. Barba becoming a lawyer and now the ADA and his friend running for Mayor.

There was a lot of spanish being spoken and a lot of brown faces. To me, this was great. To see more people of color on television is always a great thing, especially if it’s a show I love.

I know NBC Universal bought a major Spanish speaking network and are trying to diversified their Network (especially in the Latino department). 

Tonight’s episode dealt with race, class, culture, ethnically, and ‘passing’ (i.e passing for white). The storyline similar to the Anthony Weiner situation seemed like just a backdrop. But the political scandal of it all ties in all of these topics quite nicely.

So I give my applause to them. I was expecting a corny ripoff of Weiner, when in reality I got a fleshed out episode about friendship and loyalty, with race and class used as a tension filled backdrop.


Lately there has been this craze for everything nostalgic. Kids born in the 90s are clamoring to prove that their decade “did it better”. However most children born in the 90s can only really remember from ‘96-‘99, nearly half a decade is lost from us. A true 90s kid was born in the 80s, but this is an argument for another time.

The 90s seem like it was a long time ago, but in really it’s only been 14 years since the end of the decade.

So another essay on the importance of a popular 90s TV show seems redundant. However I’m here to say, this isn’t about how ground breaking this show was, but how many important life lessons this show taught.

Unlike most of the animated shows in the 90s, Hey Arnold was able to teach important life lessons without being completely cheesy. Anyone remembers the Sailor Says segment at the end of every Sailor Moon episode that aired in the early 90s?

Yeah that kind of cheese.

Children shows in the 90s felt the need to have an educational component to their shows, for better or worse. As an adult who still occasionally watches animated shows I find myself missing that cheesy life lessons portion of the show. Adventure Time may have many great life lessons tied into their psychedelic show, but there’s nothing like Hey Arnold on television right now.

Two years ago I remember discovering Hey Arnold on Netflix. This was before the whole The 90s Are All That aired on Teen Nick. Hey Arnold hadn’t been in syndication for a few years now and it was cool to reminisce on a childhood favorite. As I sat there binge watching an “old” Nick classic with my then boyfriend, remembering how hip Arnold was by listening to Jazz music and having the coolest bedroom for a 4th grader, how Stoop Kid finally left his Stoop but he clearly wasn’t a kid but more of a high school dropout who had a serious mental condition that wouldn’t let him leave his Stoop, to how hopelessly romantic, but also how derange Helga was. She was very poetic for someone her age.

Re-watching as an adult made me realize how serious this show would get. There was a reason why my mother would watch the show with my brother and me when we were kids. It hits you somewhere that many other children shows just didn’t.

Comparing the show to others that were on the air at the time, some would have said it was too low key. In reality it was a show that was always consistent and was kids and adults could relate too. Hey Arnold has been a mainstay for The 90s Are All That block for the last two years. Occasionally I find myself watching the reruns late at night.

There are three episodes of Hey Arnold that were and still are extremely important to me:

Arnold’s Christmas: The Episode where Mr.Hyunh reunites with his long-lost daughter.

Synopsis: The boarders decide to have a secret Santa for Christmas. Arnold ends up having Mr. Hyunh as his secret Santa and isn’t sure what to get him. Mr. Hyunh is little down, since the holidays remind him of his lost long daughter, Mai. He goes on to tell Arnold about how he was separated from his daughter during the Vietnam War. And all he wants for Christmas is to see her again. So Arnold goes on this crazy adventure to find her in the city’s records.

Now holiday specials are always good episodes, but this one was one of the more memorable ones.

We all know that Arnold was a special kid. He’s supposed to be the voice of reason amongst all the characters on the show. There is a reason why people go to him for advice. He seems to always know the right thing to say. He is also willing to go above and beyond for the people he cares for.

So his not so little quest to find Mr. Hyunh’s daughter was one that only Arnold could do. To locate her he ends up striking a deal with the city’s archivist that if he gets all of the items on his Christmas List, he would help locate Mr. Hyunh’s daughter. Arnold and Gerald end up on this crazy adventure on Eve to complete this man’s shopping list. However they can’t find these very popular boots that are sold out all over the city. At the same time Helga is looking to find the perfect gift for Arnold. She just received the boots Arnold is looking for from her parents for Christmas. When she see’s how much

he wanted to make Mr. Hyunh’s wish come true, she secretly gives up her shoes so she can locate Mai. Both Arnold and Mr. Hyunh are surprised when they see Mai at the door for Christmas.

Now anyone with a soul had to shed some tears from this episode. The reason why I list this episode as important is because of a few reasons. For one it was able to depict a historical moment, talking about the Vietnam War for instance. Culture is referenced in Hey Arnold, but race was never talked about however.

We also see how innocent and pure children can be. Even though Helga can be mean-spirited and selfish at times, she still cares for others. In this case she loves Arnold. Her love for Arnold affects other people because Arnold at his core loves to help others. If it weren’t for Helga’s love for him, he wouldn’t have been able to bring happiness to Mr. Hyunh. In the end it was seen as Christmas Miracle, but in reality it was all about the goodness of others. These are simple morals we are all taught as children, to help out our fellow-man. It’s the simple lessons like this that hold strong sentiments in life. Adults should be required to watch this episode so they can be reminded that there’s more to life than material items.

Ms. Perfect: The episode where you found out Lila is poor.

Synopsis: Lila is the newest student to the school. Helga and the girls decide to bring her into their group as their little “pet project”. They end up finding out that Lila is a little “Ms. Perfect” and starts to excel at all of the girl’s special talents. She also gains the interests of Arnold, which angers Helga. The girls decide to pull a number of pranks that all go ire. Finally they pull the perfect prank against Lila, which forces her to stay home the next day. When the girls go over to her house to drop off her homework they realize that Lila comes from a poverty-stricken home. Her home is in shambles, they barely have enough food to eat, her father is jobless, and it’s never mentioned if her mother is in the picture.

Having a show that is placed in urban landscape means poverty has to be talked about. Rather than sugarcoat poverty on a children’s show, Hey Arnold was able to bring this to light. In the U.S, we have the 2nd highest rate for child poverty out of the 35 richest countries. Almost 22% of children live in poverty in this country.  More than one and five children in the U.S face hunger.

We also see that her father was jobless. Currently are national unemployment rate is 8.7% according to

Just to give you more of an idea of what our economy is currently looking like: From 24/7 Wall St, “The Labor Department released its weekly jobless claims at 323,000 in the past week, versus a consensus estimate of 330,000 from Bloomberg. The prior week’s report was revised to 332,000 from 331,000.”

Of course the majority of the episode is about being the new girl, the interactions between girls and how we’re conditioned to believe we’re in constant competition with one another, and the cliché never judge a book by it’s cover. On the outside Lilia seemed like she had it all together. Like many students in this situation, they feel the need to put on a front that their home situation is better than it really is. Focusing on other things helps them cope with the reality. Sometimes it’s getting good grades and sometimes it’s dating a new boy. These “distractions” come in all shapes and sizes.

Poverty, unemployment, and hunger were and still is a major issue in our country, to see a popular children’s show showcase this allowed other children living in similar situations to relate. It also allowed children not living in these similar situations understand that not everyone lives the same life as them.

Pigeon Man

Synopsis: Arnold’s carrier pigeon, Chester, is sick and he decides to go the Pigeon Man to see if he could help. He is a legend in the neighborhood, but no one actually talks to him. Arnold discovers that Pigeon Man, also named Vincent, lives this life because he finds a home with his birds while humans constantly disappoint him. Which they prove at the end of the episode.

This was an episode that was personal to me. In my old childhood neighborhood we had our own pigeon man. He would sit by the bus stop and feed the pigeons all day. My brother was a friendly child and would always stop and say hello to him. I, on the other hand, seldom said anything to the man. He scared me. He smelled and looked like he wore the same thing all the time. Growing up, I was an extremely introverted child and was scared of everyone and everything. To some people I appeared to be a rude child. Our Pigeon Man believed this to be true and would say mean things to me. In retrospect he was probably teasing, but as child and not fully understanding sarcasm it only made me scared of him more.

So what does this have to do with Arnold’s Pigeon Man? Everything! It wasn’t until I re-watch the series that I realized both Pigeon Men have a lot in common. In Hey Arnold he looked for peace and humanity in these birds that he couldn’t find in normal society. He was shunned because he found a family amongst those birds. He took care of them, like they took care of him.

Arnold was able to reach out to this man when no one else would. He showed him that not all people were terrible. However, when some of Arnold’s friends go up to the roof to where Pigeon Man lives and ruins his bird coops, he is completely angered and disgusted by what happened.

“Of course they’ll come back: They’re birds. I trust them. I understand them. It’s people I don’t understand…You see, Arnold, it’s time for me to leave here. Some people are meant to be with people, and others, like me, are just different.”

As an adult you realize how terrible this world can be. We make fun of people who lose themselves in a fantasy world. We make fun of people who rather live outside of the cultural norms. But here is a man who was happy living with birds, who was happy taking care of birds. Through the lens of a child, you feel a sense of sadness for the Pigeon Man. He was happy, even though he was living with birds. Through the lens of an adult; you feel a sense of pity. All you can think of is that this man needs help. A child can feel for this man, an adult can only think. That’s the scary part about growing up. You lose the ability to relate to others. Children can relate to talking lions, superheroes, and pigeon man because no matter how bizarre their get up is, they’re all still people (even the talking lions) with feelings.

There are countless episodes that could be mentioned. This show was able to weave together many issues children in the inner cities went through. It captured a voice that many children shows failed to create.

From poverty, class, privilege, gender roles, death and lost, alcohol abuse (if we used Helga’s mom as example), mental instability, and so much more, this show made this all easily digestible for young children through the use of colorful and memorable characters. It instilled good morals, while also being entertaining.

Hey Arnold was not a perfect show; sometimes I wished it tackled race or maybe sexuality. But it did teach you how to be a better person.

As my college career came to a close, I’ve been continually getting the question: what are your plans after college?

Wide eyed with a blank look on my face, I answer, “I’m still trying to figure it all out.”

If you ask any of my fellow seniors who are graduated in May, their answers will be fairly similar. Of course some are more confident than others, luckily grabbed and accepted their post college jobs in whatever field of their choice. Others decided to go straight to graduate school. Some decide to travel to places like India or China for the summer. The summer post college is a time of transition, and what a summer it has been.

However if you scroll down your news feed on Facebook another tune is being sung: finding a paying full-time or even part-time job is extremely difficult. Even my brother couldn’t find a part-time retail job when he was home. Having a degree may actually hinder you because you’ll be considered “over qualified”.

To be completely honest, I actually did have some sort of plan. I’m not completely a deer caught in the headlights. During my last semester of college I was able to secure an [paid] internship with prestigious media company and over the last few months I’ve been trying my hardest to network like crazy. In media, it’s more of whom you know rather than what you know. Of course don’t expect to keep your job if you don’t know anything either!

My internship put me in a better position than a lot of my peers, giving me experience and the ability to network.  However, it also doesn’t automatically give me employment. It’s a good start though.  According to this article in The Atlantic, paid internships are more likely to lead to jobs as in comparison to unpaid internships.

The first half of my summer was dedicated to volunteering a few hours a week as an unpaid intern for a production company. Not my ideal situation, but to stay home all summer sulking about being broke won’t change my situation. I also really loved it. It really set the tone for the kind of work I hope to do soon.  By my luck I was able to secure a paid internship in July, with a educational advocacy group working in their communications department.

Currently I’m still employed, my summer internship is keeping me on for another few months.

If you’ve been following the news like I do, there is probably a news article, editorial, or news story about our current unemployment rate every day. If you look at the numbers for recent graduates and young people between the ages of 18-21 it’s not a pretty sight. The statistics for women and people of color are even more discouraging.

This also hits on the debate of unpaid internships

With the court ruling earlier this summer, Glatt v. Fox Searchlight Pictures, Judge William H. Pauley III of New York ruled that unpaid internships are unlawful. In this case, interns who were working on the film Black Swan should have been paid for their work.

Because of this case, multiple interns are coming out of the wood work to sue their former employers. Donna Karen International, is the newest company to be in the spotlight as a former intern is seeking a class-action lawsuit against the company. They’re claim? That they were told the internship would be a learning experience, but it ended up being an unpaid errands boy.

We’ve all suffered through a few unpaid internships throughout undergrad. Unpaid internships seem like the passageway to employment, or at least that is what we’ve been told. Fetching coffee or running errands seem like part of the job description, that is until it comes down to finding your first job and you realize your resume is filled with fluff.

The reason why unpaid internships are harmful is not because of unfair wages, but because of the unfair wages you would make once you join the workforce. Entry-level positions in companies are becoming more scarce. Employers can hire unpaid interns to do the work instead, thus saving them money to hire people who would be full time and with benefits. Can you imagine how attractive that is to employers? That you can hire a new batch of interns each semester without ever paying them or just paying them the bare minimum?

It wasn’t until my last semester of college that I acquired a paid internship. However most of my money went towards transportation and food. Commuting from Westchester County to New York City wasn’t cheap. A third of my earrings would go towards transportation alone. One aspect I realized many of the students at my internship had in common was that most were attending school in the city or was lucky enough to find an apartment in a nearby borough.

Another aspect unpaid internships that doesn’t get talked about is the privilege that comes along with it: having the means. If your parents are already paying for school or rent, you may not be so hesitant to take on an unpaid internship. Which means you’ll have more time to work there, which could lead to a better chance of being employed there eventually. So the real question is, who gets hurt the most from these unpaid internships?

Internships should be a learning experience, but you shouldn’t be taken advantage of because you’re a student.

Finding a new path

This summer I’ve applied to over 30 jobs. All of them are in media, video production, social media, and/or communications. They range from full-time, part-time, freelance, unpaid internships, to paid internships. So far I’ve had three call backs, six rejections, one unpaid position, and one paid internship.

Summer did get stressful. Sometimes I wanted to give up. Sometimes I worry if I picked the wrong profession. I’ve even considered going back to school. The problem is, for what?

But it’s only been three months since I graduated. I’ll drive myself crazy if I don’t have a bit of positivity when it comes to the job hunt. Taking on an unpaid internship seems a bit backwards, but I actually gained more experience and did actual work. Volunteering my time actually benefited me in the end because I’ve been able to secure some paid freelance gigs.

As the summer draws to a close, I feel a little more confident than I did three months ago when I started writing this post. Now that I experience my first post college summer, it felt appropriate to finally publish this piece…after a bit of editing may I add.

Right now I have my summer internship, a possible apprenticeship with a graphic designer, and possibly some freelance work with my old job. It’s not glamorous at all, but it takes me one step closer to finding that “dream job” and moving to my “first dream apartment with my best friends”…or just starting to pay off my college loans.

My advice to all you young, educated (college or not), and unemployed little adults out there: stay active, stay productive, and stay up on current events. Also, stay hopeful. I basically didn’t get my dream job that I’ve been wanting since January and it hurts, but at least I didn’t give up. Cliche to write, but cliches are good sometimes.

We’re the next stock of future doctors, writers, politicians, and much more. Without being completely cliche, it’s time we take back the workforce and it make it our own.